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Coping with a break up can really be hard especially if with someone really special to you. I often hear other girls say that they can handle their boyfriends having sex with other women as long as they still stay together.

But often times they never stay. They leave you feeling more desperate, pathetic and putting all the blame to yourself. Asking yourself where you fell short and what you could have done to prevent the break up.

What’s done is done. But if you think that there is nothing left for you to do then you are wrong. Hundreds of couples around the world break up everyday and a good percentage of them end up getting back together.

What Can You Do Today To End Your Break Up?

Often times you feel hopeless so you react with intense emotions and try to pull all the stops just to “win your ex back”. I understand how you feel but you are just making it harder for yourself to resolve the problem.

So what you should do?

1. STOP calling him on the phone several times a day.

2. STOP calling his family, friends and relatives.

3. STOP sending him tons of text messages and emails.

4. STOP begging and pleading for him or her to come back.

5. Seriously, what you need is to STOP being there.

Remember, he broke up with you and you are just increasing the level of confusion he is going through by overwhelming him with your neediness. Right now, I can tell you upfront that he sees you as some kind of a burden.

He knows exactly where to find you. He knows exactly what’s on your mind. If your ex does not know anything about what’s going on with you then you have a better chance of solving the dilemma that your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is going through.

Additionally, this is a great way to help ease up the drama between you.

I know this may sound a bit counter intuitive but believe me these should be your first move. I didn’t want to call it a “tactic” because I also want you to use this “invisible” mode as an opportunity for you to heal yourself.

If there is a third party, the more you should abide by this. Have a strong heart and mind. Believe that this “in love” state he is going through with the other lover will soon fade.

You need to have the confidence that it will. Be patient and their relationship will run its course.

Give yourself time and love. Take that trip that you’ve been putting off. Enjoy and start living your life. I know it’s not easy but you have to believe that it’s not that hard too.

Think of it as your opportunity to grow into another level. Once he realizes that you no longer need him, you’re not pestering him and leaving a hundred comments on his facebook, he will think that you have moved on.

This is will stir uncomfortable feelings inside and even find you irresistible, this is the way human nature is wired.

Everything would take some guts and an iron will on your part. You have tried your own “needy” tactics and they didn’t work. Give this method a shot. Gather your composure and reclaim your self-respect.

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